What is Family?
/What does it take to have Godly, strong, and healthy families?
What does it take to have Godly, strong, and healthy families?
Those who are his stand on the solid foundation of God.
The way is Narrow & Difficult & Few (Matt 7:13-14).
His word is truth (John 8:31-32). Jesus is the way, solid and sure.
He is the food that brings eternal life (Luke 6:47-48).
Those who belong to God handle the Word accurately.
Peace WITH God while Under Pressure
Spiritual peace is ours ONLY when we have a right relationship with God through Christ Jesus (Rom 5:1).
“Let everyone who names the name of Christ depart from iniquity” (cf. 2 Tim 2:15–19).
Col 4:6; Eph 4:29. If you speak profanity it's from your heart, therefore it reveals that you are a profane person.
If a person does not work, they do not eat (2 Thess 3:6–15).
Psalm 1. More ungodliness follows. Sin is not just a mistake or error in judgement. It is a serious cause for separation from God. Sin is costly.
It influences us to sin more and it influences others too.
Rom 13:10-14; 1 Pet 4:1; Eph 6:10-11; Luke 2:52
How to sit and stand and act in public. How to behave in everyday life.
Heb 5:12.
Children need a firm determination to live life as they should (1 Cor 15:58).
Our children need to be taught to show gratitude and respect when they are served (Eph 6:1–3). But this respect has to be modeled by the parents and not only “told.” Arm ourselves to arm them for life.
2 Cor 4:8-18. Children look to parents, family, and role models to see how they handle life situations especially whether we do it in a Christian way. When we succeed in Christian resilience then children see that they can too.
When Peter lopped off the ear of Malchus he failed to show restraint (John 18:10–11). James and John sought the destruction of a city after they rejected Jesus (Luke 9:54). Jesus, in both instances, commanded restraint.
Our children need to know when to act and when to restrain themselves. Sometimes we should speak and other times keep silent.
Children need to recognize, acknowledge, and accept authority. They must recognize the authority of God and others over them. They must recognize the authority of God (2 Tim 3:16–17).
We are accountable to one another and ultimately to God (2 Cor 5:10). We are also accountable to the authorities God put into place (Rom 13:1-7). Every day we need to take an account of who we are. Our children need to remember that they are accountable for their choices. You will reap what you sow — you have to account for your actions.
Our children need to know that we accept and love them just as God loved His Son (John 3:16–17). This does not mean we accept and approve their sin, for sin is opposed to God.
Our children need answers to life's questions, about making right choices. They need answers from someone who loves them, trusts them, and will tell them the truth. If the answers don't come from us or from God's Word they will go to their friends and the Internet.
Those who are His are consistent. They are not two different people at home/work vs the church. Those Who are His are the same. They are workers who do not need to be ashamed.
We Do Not Need to Be Ashamed because...
Luke 6:46–49. Our desire is to live approved by Him and not be ashamed.
Mark 7:1–23. Some people attend church because it's a fad and go to churches because “everyone goes there” : the prestigious members of the community, the poor, and rich. Those Who Are His follow the Father not the fad, fun, or friends. God wants us to honor Him with our words and our hearts (Mark 7:6).
1 John 5:1–7. Those Who Are His only speak of what they do and they do what they say. Ideals are meaningless unless practiced.
Gal 1:6–10; 1 John 3:22. God knows those who seek to please Him and they will not be ashamed.
In this parable, Jesus teaches us about the Father's love for us through the parable of the lost son.
If we Humble ourselves, God will exalt us. If we Exalt ourselves, God will humble us. Our goal is to humble ourselves like Jesus (Phil 2:5–11).